In His Own Words
About him
I’ve had my share of adventures and lived in some lovely places overseas, and while that’s been exciting, it’s shown me that the real quality of life comes from the inner journey. Both inner and outer are equally important, but if you can't manage your own state it doesn't matter what you have or where you are you can't embrace it. I’ve practised meditation and yoga a long time and value self-reflection. I’m also practical, earthy, and carry a tad of wildness. A good listener with a growth mindset, I see life through an esoteric, unconventional lens. Generous/free-spirited, and steady, I value realness and genuine connection in any form.
Interests: motorcycling, narrowboating. I drum & am exploring the harmonium, German. I trained as a counsellor (almost qualified!). I journal regularly and have a psychological curiosity.
I value quality time over material pursuits. I’m sort-of-semi-retired - not sure if I’m done with vocation yet...currently on a kind of 'sabbatical'. I’ve travelled a lot but, for now, long-distance trips abroad aren’t for me. If you need a world traveller buddy, that’s not me at this point in time. Anywhere around the UK is fair game. These days, most of my movement is at walking pace on my narrowboat.
And last but not least...I’m hygienic ;-)
About his ideal match
I’m drawn to someone with a curious mind, an open heart, and a bit of wildness in their spirit - and kind. Someone who values realness over pretence, can move between deep conversation and playful mischief, and isn’t afraid to explore all aspects of life. Ideally, you’re thoughtful, self-aware, comfortable with intensity and vulnerability, and willing to have open, honest conversations. I appreciate intimacy that feels natural - trusting the ebbs and flows rather than forcing closeness. Equals, walking side by side, making space for both connection and independence.
If you value growth, connection, and a touch of the unconventional - if you can appreciate both the poignant and the funny - we might be able to create something interesting and beautiful together. Let’s see if we can be friends first and...go from there.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Tamworth (Alvecote), Staffordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district B79 (Tamworth) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Daring; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Out of control |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Jazz; Opera; Punk; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
American Football; Cycling; Dance; Football (Soccer); Rugby; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Widows & Widowers UK: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |