In His Own Words
About him
This is a 71 year old widowed man who would rather not spend too many more evenings watching the TV.
I am looking for educated and stimulating companionship.
I pretty much enjoy the usual things in life. A good chat, a quiet walk, a long motorcycle ride, a black coffee, an enjoyable lunch in a pub and sometimes a cosy evening in on the sofa.
About his ideal match
Ideally my match would be female, single, educated and well spoken. Is that too much to ask? I don't think so.
I suppose honesty is another desirable attribute. What sort of relationship is there if one party doesn't share their thoughts?
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Maldon (Essex), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
71 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
6' 2" (188cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district CM9 (Maldon) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
64 - 81 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Intelligent; Loyal; Outgoing; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Internet; Music; Politics; Reading; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Widows & Widowers UK: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Very |