In Her Own Words
About her
I have a good brain and a good body, and love to use both! I'm open-minded, energetic, curious and confident.
Looking for connection - authentic, trusting, non-judging and to see, hear, understand each other.
Would you join me in a heart to heart chat, or soaking in the bath, a countryside walk, reading on the sofa, sharing random thoughts, happy to agree to disagree
I can't cope with background radio / music / telly - my brain freezes. Happy to actively listen to the above, background is the problem.
About her ideal match
My ideal match wants an non-judging, warts-and-all connection. Must be able to *listen* and communicate.
Someone who enjoys batting ideas around, pondering whys and wherefores, at the same time is allergic to dogma.
I'm looking for a someone to cherish, care for, support, smile at and about, know deeply and still be surprised by.
Hopefully within a 45 minute drive.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Thame, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Media | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Welsh | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district OX49 (Watlington) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
57 - 67 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; Filipino / Tagalog; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Malay; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Serbian; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish; Welsh; Other | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Dance; Hiking; Ice Skating; Walking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Widows & Widowers UK: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |